Yes, “networking” has the word “work” in it, but never forget that it can, and should be fun. When something isn’t fun, we avoid doing it. And if you’ve been reading this blog for any length of time, you know that networking is one of the best ways to stay employed, if you’re working for someone else, or stay in business, if you work for yourself.
So how can you have fun with networking? There are lots of ways. Here are a few:
1. Go do something fun with a contact
One of my referral partners recently took me to a Nationals ball game. We had a ball (pardon the pun). Did we talk some business? Sure. We needed an excuse to make it a business expense. But mostly we just ate, drank and watched a good game. We now know more about each other on a personal level, and that’s good.
2. Throw a party
Parties are an excellent way to get people together. Do you have some people who need to meet, but a three-way meeting over coffee or lunch just doesn’t seem right? Have an intimate get-together at your house. Or invite a bunch of people over to grill hot dogs on the deck. Maybe organize a Twister party. Nothing will break down barriers faster than that. Introducing people in a social setting can break down walls, making it easier for business to happen later.
3. Meet someone for lunch with business not on the agenda
Sometimes it’s nice to just eat food and talk about stuff. Make time for that. If business comes up, okay, but try to keep it a small part of the conversation.
4. Invite someone to share a hobby
Do you have some leisure activity you are passionate about? Invite a business contact to share it with you. Golf or tennis? Museum hopping? Whatever. A contact of mine rides dressage. She invited me to watch her compete. I still have pictures from that event, and when I see them, I think of her and how much fun I had.
So have fun sometimes. You know the saying about all work and no play? Well, I hope no one ends that sentence with “makes [fill in your name] a dull boy (or girl).”
Anyone else want to share their favorite fun ways to network?



